Staying in Control
Other than the serious medical issues surrounding this virus, which are significant, I think part of the recent psychological challenges to our current predicament might be traced to what seems like an increasing lack of control. Things are happening to us and around us that we are not in charge of, but that does not mean there is nothing we can control. For sure, our routines are changing. Because of a temporary situation related to apartment maintenance (or more to the point, lack thereof), our youngest daughter and her two kids stayed with us for a few days.) Because of this, I have discovered that five year olds must stomp like a dinosaur whenever they are moving from one room to another (growl included, free of charge.) I have re-discovered the fun of hearing dreams recalled in lazy mornings before breakfast. I have found the importance of protecting one’s quiet space. I have re-discovered the joy—and challenges—of having little ones spread aro