Dying with real dignity

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I was out watering where we had seeds planted that were not yet showing any signs of life. It made me think about that passage from Hebrews Chapter 11 (verse 1) that states:

"Faith is the realization of what is hoped for and evidence of things not seen."

You see, I have faith that if I do my due diligence and water consistently, we will one day have some pretty flowers. I am hoping that will be the case, even though there is absolutely no evidence of life.

But, I assume that under that dark, seemingly lifeless soil, there is something going on. That is usually true with people as well--there is more to them than what is seen (not that they are dark and lifeless!)

Recently, sprouting from the dark, Michigan Democrats are pushing for a "Death with Dignity" bill that would allow a terminally ill patient to request life-ending medication that they would self-administer.

There is more to this than what can be seen. 

We have resisted movement on this issue for a long time in Michigan. I used to speak out against Jack Kevorkian's promotion of physician-assisted suicide back in the 90s.

As usual, the emotionally charged, clever language that swirls around it can convince even the strongest opponent.

Don't be fooled. 

It does not align with Christianity; we should not buy into the idea that we should control every aspect of our life and death. Appropriate pain management and walking with someone in their suffering at the end of their life does not include encouraging them to self-administer medication to end their life.

We should be careful not to glorify such an act as humane. It is not, no matter how soft the language used to describe it might be. 

I had a wonderful opportunity to interview a priest friend of mine back in 2023 who was living with a terminal illness. After much prayer and discernment he decided to stop refilling his prescription medications as they came due. In September of 2023, as he did so, his doctor told him he might have 2-3 weeks to live.

He died January 26, 2024. 

He was committed to working as long as God allowed, and it turned out to be much longer than anticipated. All in God's time.

In my interview with him we discussed how discontinuing his treatment was different from euthanasia. Fr. Bill Lugger spoke openly about his decision, giving us a wonderful explanation (and personal example) of what it really means to die with dignity.

I encourage you to watch my interview with him and share it with others. You can find the link below.

Pray for peace, joy, and an end to war.

Janet Cassidy
Email me at:  jmctm2@gmail.com

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Fr. Bill Lugger Interview:

https://youtu.be/RynzjOY0QyE 

 

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