Looking for Peace in Your Life?
When we were a (relatively) young married couple (without a lot of liquid assets) it seems that for a few years in a row, every Christmas was accompanied by a $1,000 car repair bill. It was frustrating, to say the least, but eventually, I came to accept that if you have a car, you are either going to have repair bills or a car payment, so I gradually learned not to sweat about either. (On a side note, my mom used to say, jokingly, "You either have kids or money, but not both" ha ha) I had a boss, years ago, who was a Chapter 13 Trustee lawyer (William W. Wumkes) who did not own a car. He walked everywhere, took a taxi or enlisted a friend. Now there was a man who didn't worry about car repairs or monthly payments! I thought of my early days of fussing over this stuff and where I am today, and I realized that I have learned a lot about acceptance. Once I realized that I could do absolutely nothing in terms of avoiding car repairs, I just accepte...