Living without Regret and Guilt
I would like to thank each and every one of you for your warm comments, expressions of love, and condolences on the passing of our mom. Our whole family was really lifted up this weekend by your prayers, support and visits. Don’t ever think the online condolences just disappear and nobody reads them, because we do. They are very comforting. I have a few takeaways that I would like to share with you, as I try to get back into my writing. One day I was sitting with my mom at the nursing home and the head of dietary was standing there talking to us about her mom who had passed years before. She said she still thinks, “I have to tell my mom . . .” until she remembers she is gone. Moms are carried in our hearts and minds forever. It is good for us to continue conversing with them. I’ve already started talking to my mom, and I am really comforted when I do. I know we often apply sainthood to those who have passed, but something I have come to realize is how truly s...